Howcthappen (original poster member #80775) posted at 1:09 AM on Sunday, August 16th, 2026
Before I start I want to share that I couldn’t finish the movie. I left because it was pushing all my sensitive spots and triggering me so I left.
The movie is called Obsessed.
I identified so much with how my insides were breaking apart and how my inner person was screaming inside in excruciating pain. I don’t want to ruin it in case others haven’t seen it. However if you have seen it do any parts of her breakdown mirror what the early years of after discovery was like for you?
Without giving it away- the main character in the movie makes a very selfish decision that did not consider the feelings of the other person involved all because it served him and his desires and it literally changed her FOREVER and he couldn’t handle the aftermath.
Really really very similar to the psychological break down I felt as a betrayed spouse.
Three years since DdayNever gonna be the sameReconcilingThe sting is still present
Drowning45 ( member #85811) posted at 8:30 AM on Sunday, August 16th, 2026
Was it the movie obsession?? I was able to watch it without any triggers, just thought it was a crap movie..you didn't miss anything lol. The big difference for me was we have choices, yes the pain at the start is excruciating but we do have a choice in how we handle it and whether we stay/go/temp separation etc, her ability to think and make a choice was removed. But I get the link of one person's actions impacting your world without your consent or even knowledge
